Fingering the Vagina

How to Prepare to Finger Her

Clean Hands
One of the things you do not want to leave your lover with is a Urinary Tract Infection (UTI). To avoid this you will want to make sure that you hands are washed well so that you do not introduce harmful bacteria into her vaginal opening or her urethra

Avoiding A Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)
The urethra (where the urine comes out) is where UTIs occur and if left untreated they can turn into a serious infection that spreads into the kidneys and should be treated with antibiotics. For all you women out there that have had one... you know that it can be quite painful and make all that sexual activity that caused it become a distant memory fast.

Shorten & Clean Under Finger Nails
This should be painfully obvious as to why, but make sure to trim fingernails, so as to not to cut her when you are fingering her. By also cleaning under your finger nails you are ridding your hands of bacteria that lives under your nails as well. A woman often loves to be fingered and having her lover keep her pleasured and not in pain is always a good idea.

Lubricant
Most of the time if you rub the clitoris or start with some sexy foreplay your lovely lady will be ready to go with a naturally lubricated VA-jay-jay but sometimes when you have been fingering her for a while, using a sex toy or if she is experiencing effects from a prescription medication or hormonal imbalance it becomes difficult to self lubricate, and you may want to introduce a lubricant.

Hot Tips
If you really want to surprise her with some sexual excitement, you can have clitoral or gspot stimulation gel or lubricants on your fingers before hand which will add to the pleasure of the experience. Using a finger vibe can also enhance intensity. We will show you our recommended ones later in this article.

Atmosphere
If you want to create a sensual atmosphere for sexual play than you can start off with a sensual massage or even drawing her a bath. You can go straight into fingering from the massage or even in the bath. If you do finger her during a bath or in water, you should be aware that doing so may pull her natural lubricants out and may start to chafe so be careful about doing it too quickly if that is the case.