Giving a great hand job begins with the mind as all seduction begins there. Making the context for the hand job feel erotic is about your attitude first and foremost.
Just like women, men want to feel that you want them and doing things like whispering naughty things in their ear while you slowly ease your hand south is much better than jerking his penis out and mechanically going up and down with your hand.A romantic atmosphere is always nice- scented candles, sensual music and a great stimulating lubricant always come in 'handy'. Of course those things are not necessary to a good hand job, they are simply icing on the cake.
However, if you are like many and enjoy the icing, I would suggest keeping a sample size lube in your wallet. If you have a purse or man bag, you can keep some hand wipes for easy clean up afterward. After all, things when done well sexually can get a bit messy.
Hand Job Pressure
The best way to start is gently and then gradually slide your hand up and down with a bit firmer grip, making sure to notice if he is enjoying the added pressure or if it is getting to be too much.
Communicate- Ask him in a soft whisper if it feels good, does he want it harder, or softer. Let him tell you what he wants. Many men will want it softer and then want increased intensity to as the hand job progresses. However, many factors will influence this, including personal preference, so it is always best to ask in a seductive way if this is a first time and/or it has never been discussed.
Hand Job Lubricant
Hand jobs are greatly enhanced with the use of a lubricant, so if you have one, use it. If you do not have access to a lubricant, using a substitute like hand cream, cooking oil or petroleum jelly will do.
If you use an alternative, remember that should you continue to sexual intercourse that a condom will not be safe to use unless the lubricant is water-based.
Also, make sure to avoid any types of oils or products that have skin irritants in them. Even using something with essential oils (like cinnamon, orange, etc.) can cause irritation and inflammation to the skin.
If you do not have access to a lubricant or do not want one, hand jobs must be done with more care as the friction to the tender skin of the penis can become irritating and painful.
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